How can I ever relate when I'm secure, fed and free to the threatened, hungry and desperate folk who live across some sea? I have never suffered pogroms or seen bayonets in play or had to decide which of my children got a little food today. And what of state rape of women or Rwandan hands cut free how does all of this affect an Englishman like me? Well, I am not innocent or untainted for the guilt is just the same if I prosper in my comfort when my country invented the game.